We can’t make them.
I want you to be vulnerable with me.I can't make you. I want you to choose curiosity and love.I can't make you. I want you to build trust with me.I can't make you. I want you to get it right.I can't make you. I
Authentic connection
Some people head to Louisville to drink bourbon, I go to speak to the leaders at American Commercial Barge Line and look at old houses in the historic district. Thankful to spend two mornings with the leaders at ACBL teaching courage
we all fear and we all love
What are they afraid of? Who do they love? Something that is helping me right now is remembering that we all both desperately love someone and are desperately afraid of something. And that we often react from that love and fear in
Believe the best
We tell ourselves that being upfront, having the tough conversation, being real, asking for what we want and need, giving the feedback, or holding them accountable is just too awkward, hard, and uncomfortable. So we don't. And then we wonder how come
Values are the way through and forward
When something doesn't feel quite right, feels a bit off, confusing, and not okay, it probably means it's rubbing up against your values and, therefore, only reinforcing the importance that you live, love, and lead in alignment with those values. Do
What’s the story I’m making up
I wonder what it would be like if we all took a beat, a bit of a pause, and got curious about that really strong opinion we are having. Where is it coming from? What is this really about? What's the story I
Love you
The day after superbowl, one of the days each year that social is filled with even more strong opinions that somehow turn even more hateful, vicious and just plain sad. Always the blaring reminder for me, that there are a
What does support look like?
When is the last time you met yourself with grace, love, and curiosity and asked yourself what you really want and need?