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Episode 27: Stop Running on Empty and Start Showing Up for Yourself

In this episode of Courage is Built Here, Justine opens Pathway Two, Embody Again, with an honest and powerful conversation about burnout, boundaries, and learning to take care of yourself when everything depends on you. She invites Betsy Reznicek to share her journey as a nonprofit founder who reached a breaking point and had to make a courageous choice to step away.

Betsy shares how years of carrying the responsibility of building and leading an organization led to complete exhaustion, intensified by personal grief. She describes what it felt like to come home every day with nothing left to give, and the moment she realized something had to change.

Together, Justine and Betsy explore what it looked like to take a true sabbatical, how quickly her energy and presence returned, and how that experience led to a lasting policy change within her organization. They talk about boundaries, habits that support well-being, and the importance of creating space for others to step into leadership.

They also discuss the deeper emotional layers of stepping away from work, including fear, identity, and belonging. Throughout the episode, they return to the idea that caring for yourself is not optional, it is foundational to living and leading with courage.

Key Takeaways

  • Pathway Two, Embody Again, is about learning to care for yourself so you can show up well for others.
  • Burnout often builds slowly and can be intensified by major life events like grief.
  • Asking for help is a critical and courageous step in preventing complete depletion.
  • Taking a true break can restore energy, clarity, and emotional capacity quickly.
  • Sabbaticals can benefit not just the individual but the entire organization.
  • Boundaries, both physical and emotional, are essential for sustainable work and life rhythms.
  • Moving your body, rest, and simple habits can help regulate stress and improve well-being.
  • Letting go of control creates space for others to grow and step into leadership.
  • Many people struggle with identity and fear when stepping away from work or routine.
  • You were never meant to carry everything alone, community and support are essential.


About the guest

Betsy Reznicek is the founder of Home Sweet Home, a nonprofit organization created to help families fill their homes with essential furniture and household items. With a background in fundraising, outreach, and leadership, she has grown the organization from an all-volunteer effort into a thriving team with a strong mission. Betsy is also a single mom of two who values adventure, community, and creating meaningful impact through her work.

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Author:

A Licensed Professional Counselor, Justine Froelker has over 25 years of experience in mental health, personal growth, and professional development. For eleven years, she was certified in Dr. Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability, courage, and empathy. Justine now shares her own curriculum, Courage is Built Here™. This transformative program empowers individuals to live and lead with self-awareness, authenticity, and resilience, building a foundation for courage-centered leadership. In addition to writing her blog since 2013, Justine is an accomplished author of thirteen books—including five Amazon bestsellers—Justine has written across genres, from children’s books to in-depth explorations of infertility, faith, grief, and leadership. She has delivered two TEDx Talks, The Permission of the And and The Donut Effect, which highlight her unique perspective on navigating life’s complexities with grace. Justine is a sought-after speaker who travels nationally and presents virtually to global audiences, delivering keynotes, workshops, retreats, and trainings on topics such as leadership, resilience, mental health, coping with burnout, courageous and curious conversations, and fostering cultures of inclusion and belonging. Justine lives in St. Louis with her husband Chad and their two dogs, Gertie and Winston. You’ll often find her volunteering at Wild Bird Rehabilitation—supporting the medical team and feeding hundreds of tiny, hungry babies during baby bird season. And during butterfly season, her home comes alive with the flutter of wings as she raises hundreds of monarch and swallowtail butterflies.

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