No more comments section.
In the past I have found the comment section a place where I can learn something different than what I think and feel. A place of, huh, I have never thought it of that way. Nowadays, I need to actually put a
Stay curious
Get curious about how come someone cuts you with judgment. It's probably because they are struggling with something, and remember, it truly has more to do with them than you.
When someone tells you they are hurt, believe them.
We have to stop telling people how they feel or that we know more about their lived experiences.