Boundaries, Resentment, and Holiday Courage
It’s that time of year when boundary work can feel a little more uncomfortable, and yet, it’s more necessary than ever. Invitations, events, travel, excitement, a little stress, too little sleep, too much sugar, and all of it stacked on top
Grace still includes accountability.
Grace still includes accountability. So does love. And empathy. And trust. When accountability is missing, it usually means I haven’t clearly said out loud what is okay and what is not okay for me with you. Which often leaves me holding
No more comments section.
In the past I have found the comment section a place where I can learn something different than what I think and feel. A place of, huh, I have never thought it of that way. Nowadays, I need to actually put a
Stay curious
Get curious about how come someone cuts you with judgment. It's probably because they are struggling with something, and remember, it truly has more to do with them than you.
When someone tells you they are hurt, believe them.
We have to stop telling people how they feel or that we know more about their lived experiences.
