Two years ago, the first strike of hell of living with Trigeminal Neuralgia struck, literally taking me to my knees in a cold sweat begging for my life. Several months later, we'd discover mold to be the root of my
To know the difference between "it is what it is" with apathetic defeat and "it is what it is" with active acceptance is to live in the knowing dance of peace in action, unstuck with content, and courage in change.
We can be kind by being clear, we can hold people accountable with courage, and we must ask for what we want and need speaking expectations. We also must recognize when our own emotions or discomfort with vulnerability stands in