The biggest regrets of leaders.
I asked ChatGPT what the biggest regrets of leaders were from the last five years. And not surprisingly, the work I do every single day with organizations addresses and helps with these very concerns. Here’s what leaders say they regret most,
Grace still includes accountability.
Grace still includes accountability. So does love. And empathy. And trust. When accountability is missing, it usually means I haven’t clearly said out loud what is okay and what is not okay for me with you. Which often leaves me holding
Our walk toward more courage.
Our final Accountability Check-In of the year with my friends—the administrators at @ssdstlco — and I decided to go all in on creativity to help us embody the work and celebrate how far we've come. So yes, I drew not one, but two “Courage: How Far We’ve Come” Pathways.
Clear is kind and kind is connection.
Some people live only from their own narrow and limited lens—with no curiosity, no compassion, just a persistent need to be right and to disagree. First: These are not my people.Second: I choose to meet them with what they often refuse
How do we be accountable to ourselves?
Absolutely loved this conversation with this incredible community of women leaders. Thank you Facilisgroup for having me!
Stop going to an empty well looking for water.
I believe we are creatures of habit and that routine when done from a place of care, love, and filling up (not punishment or fear), can help us be the happiest, healthiest, and most connected version of ourselves. I have a
It lies within us.
What we need to heal, to move forward, and even to forgive does not lie outside of us. It's in us. Is it harder without the accountability, without the I'm sorry, without the change on their part? Of course. And still, I promise, what
May we own our part always.
What people think of you is none of your business. Plus, what they think of you probably has more to do with them than with you. Take nothing personally.
sit beside, seek to understand, and do
Maybe today, rather than shouting our either/or solution at someone, we could sit beside, seek to understand, and do, and I mean really freaking do, something different.
