I have found a special love, and talent for those in the battle of secondary infertility and those in the midst of pregnancy after loss. The other day I had an aha with a client coping with pregnancy after loss.

The numbers are staggering. 1 in 8 will struggle to conceive. 1 in 4 pregnancies will end in a loss. 1 in 160 deliveries will in with a child born still.

Often feeling like the invisible advocate only seemed to strengthen my hustle but not in a healthy way. Rather, it was a hustle from scarcity as if trying to convince myself that I am enough. 

Because only through the darkness do we make room for the light.

In reality my life, especially the last few years, has had its fair share of disappointments.

I tried very hard to be a mother in the traditional sense, and yet it was not my dream to have.

The first defining part of my life story is one that makes people curious and sometimes left in awe.