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Will I keep believing that people are doing their best?

It never fails. The days I teach the ‘are people doing their best?’ lesson, the foundation of oozing grace that I live from is challenged.

This morning I got to teach curiosity, rebuilding trust, and reconciliation through boundaries and generosity to my friends at Anders CPAs + Advisors. And as usual, we have great conversations.

Then I came home to a husband that missed much-needed in-person meetings to be present for our contractors who no-showed on the job. To say that this last big construction projection on our mid-century modern restoration has not gone the way we hoped, expected, or even close to well is an understatement.

Will I keep believing that people are doing their best?
Will I really keep teaching this lesson to my community and audiences?

Yep.

And dang, if sometimes, someone’s best just isn’t even close to being good enough for me.

Ugh.
Courage work.

And, so we have tough conversations.
We ask for what we want and need.
We set boundaries.
And we rumble with what it brings up for us and if needed, go find what we need from somewhere or someone else.

So…. anyone have a concrete company they recommend in St. Louis who will come salvage the mess and a halfway done front walk and back patio that has been left behind? Because you would make three little dogs very happy if so.

Author:

A Licensed Professional Counselor, Justine Froelker has over 25 years of experience in mental health, personal growth, and professional development. For eleven years, she was certified in Dr. Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability, courage, and empathy. Justine now shares her own curriculum, Courage is Built Here™. This transformative program empowers individuals to live and lead with self-awareness, authenticity, and resilience, building a foundation for courage-centered leadership. In addition to writing her blog since 2013, Justine is an accomplished author of twelve books—including five Amazon bestsellers—Justine has written across genres, from children’s books to in-depth explorations of infertility, faith, grief, and leadership. She has delivered two TEDx Talks, The Permission of the And and The Donut Effect, which highlight her unique perspective on navigating life’s complexities with grace. Justine is a sought-after speaker who travels nationally and presents virtually to global audiences, delivering keynotes, workshops, retreats, and trainings on topics such as leadership, resilience, mental health, coping with burnout, courageous and curious conversations, and fostering cultures of inclusion and belonging. Justine lives in St. Louis with her husband Chad and their three dogs. You’ll often find her volunteering at Wild Bird Rehabilitation—supporting the medical team and feeding hundreds of tiny, hungry babies during baby bird season. And during butterfly season, her home comes alive with the flutter of wings as she raises hundreds of monarch and swallowtail butterflies.

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